CLUB RULES AND POLICY FOR PARTICIPATION
Player and Parent/guardian sign and return
• All club members must be active in club and organization activities.
• Parents and players are expected to actively be involved in the Rugby Club.
• A player must practice to be able to play.
• Family emergencies or an academic obligation will take priority
Parent/Coach Relationship
Parenting and coaching are extremely difficult vocations. By establishing an understanding of each position, we are better able to accept the actions of the other and provide greater benefit to our student-athletes. As parents, when your child becomes involved in our program, you have a right to understand what expectations are placed on them. This begins with clear communication from the coach of the team.
Communication you should expect from the coach
• Coaching philosophy
• Expectations the coach has for all players on his team.
• Locations and times of all practices and contests/travel information
• Communication coaches expect from parents
• Advance notification of any schedule conflict
• Specific concerns in regard to coaches’ expectations or philosophy
As your child becomes involved in the athletic program at Four Points Viper Rugby, they will experience some of the most rewarding moments of his life. However, there will be times when they may encounter adverse situations that may affect their attitude. It is at these times that we encourage you to speak with the coach.
Appropriate concerns to discuss with the coaches
• Ways to help your child improve
• Concerns about your child’s behavior or academic progress
• The mental or physical treatment of your child
It is extremely difficult to accept that your child is not playing as much as you may hope. Coaches are professionals; they make judgment decisions based on what they believe to be in the best interest for the team and your child. The coaches request that if you need to talk with them to wait 24 hours after a game before meeting with them.
Concerns not appropriate to discuss with coaches
• Playing Time
• Team Strategy
• Play Calling
• Other Student-Athletes
There may be situations that require a conference between the coach and parent. These are to be encouraged. It is important that both parties involved have a clear understanding of the other’s positions. When these conferences are necessary, the procedures listed below should be followed to help promote a resolution of the issue or concern.
If you have a concern to discuss with a coach, the procedure listed below should be followed:
• First, have the player speak with the coach.
• If the issue has not been resolved, make an appointment to meet with the coach.
• Please do not attempt to confront a coach before or after a contest or practice. These can be emotional times for both the parent and the coach.
What can a parent do if the meeting with the coach did not provide a satisfactory resolution?
• Call and set up an appointment with the Parent Club officers to discuss the situation.
Since research indicates a student involved in athletics has a greater chance for success during adulthood, Four Point Youth Rugby strongly supports the athletic program. Many of the character traits required to be a successful student-athlete are exactly those that will promote a rewarding life after high school. We trust the information provided within this manual makes both your child’s, and your experience with the Rugby program more enjoyable and less stressful.